Our Choices Determine Who We Become

President Obama announced his nomination for the Supreme Court yesterday. He chose Judge Sonia Sotomayor. Judge Sotomayor’s early years were quite humbling. She lived in the South Bronx in the inner city in the Bronxdale Housing projects; her father died before she reached her teens, and her mother struggled to raise her and her brother. The odds of her graduating from high school were pretty low. Graduating from Princeton University at the top of her class would not even seem statistically probable. Betting on a Puerto Rican girl from the South Bronx becoming a judge who is up for nomination to the US Supreme Court might certainly seem like a shoo-in for the opposer. However, Judge Sotomayor didn’t concern herself with the odds that were stacked against her, she focused on her goals. I doubt that her goal was to become the first Hispanic appointed to the US Supreme Court, but as she worked on the dream of becoming a judge, her expectations and her options changed.

Our purpose is often beyond the realm of what we can imagine, dream or expect. As such, we have to strive for excellence in everything that we do. When we do our best and reach the goals that we have set for ourselves, we have to take a brief moment to reflect with humility on who we were and where we came from, to celebrate who we have become and where we are, then we must look ahead to see who we were born to be and what we have to do to get there. With each step the path gets a little clearer, but clarity is not to be confused with easy or less intricate. The path ahead is never straight, there are always twists and turns and forks in the road that call on us to make the right decisions and choices.

Long ago, when she was a young girl living in a poverty stricken environment, Judge Sotomayor decided that she wanted something better for her future. She found a goal and a dream that she was willing to work towards with a commitment that spanned decades. She did the hard work from day one. She strived for excellence in education. She understood that education was her way out of her situation. Although it wasn’t easy, she chose the path of “excellence”, not the path of “average.”

What she did yesterday matters more today than she could ever have imagined. Her choices, relationships, words, and actions will come under full public scrutiny. Every paper she has ever written, every judgment she has rendered and every aspect of her life will be dissected in search of the “real” Sonia Sotomayor. It's my guess that we've already met her.

Now ask yourself this question: If I were granted such an honor, would the decisions and choices that I have made over time ruin my chances?

Live your life in such a way that when all of your hard work leads you to a path more intricate than you could ever have imagined, no one or nothing, can stand in your way.